Goal Setting

Some people are natural goal setters. I had to be taught. The first book I ever read about goal setting was "See you at the top " by Zig Ziggler.I have learned not to beat myself up for goals I never had. The best example is I don't jhave a college degree and I used to beat myself over that until I realized that it was never a goal of mine to have a college. I went because that was the thing to do. It was a dream at best. A dream is not a goal! Goals are specific and planned. If it had been a goal of mine to have a college degree.I would have checked the cost. How many hours I'd need. The list goes on and on. I had never done that. From this I learned, Not to beat myself up for goals I never had. A dream is not a goal. There is nothing wrong with dreaming. Just don't confuse the two. This was one of my biggest lesson I learned as an adult and how to operate in this world.

"Let my center be quiet still and loving"